Updated 12/11/2018: John died suddenly after a seizure on October 11, 2018, in the middle of Hurricane Michael. We are devastated at the loss of our husband and father. We were never able to get him the new van he so desperately needed, and I ask his intercession to Almighty God for all those who are in need of one. If you wish to help me (Mary) and the children, the fundraiser link for our living expenses is here: https://www.givesendgo.com/GHRS#.W8QNumXt9jQ
In 2008, I got my first motorized wheelchair, and we were blessed with an opportunity to buy a twice used 2000 Chevrolet Express 3500 wheelchair van, which was first a prison van and then a medical taxi (I call it our “Paddy Wagon,” since the expression came from stereotypical Irish cops collecting groups of stereotypical Irish drunks in police vans).
The van has served us well for almost 9 years as our primary vehicle. “We’ve” had to put some money into it to keep it going, but when it all adds up, it was less than we’d have paid even for a regular van in payments, much less for a handicapped van that can fit our family.
Our economic situation simple: we make a little less than enough to get by in modern America. Unless I should obtain the time and inspiration to write a best-selling book, we strike the lottery or get a really good investment, we’ll never make much more than we do now.
So when a major expense arises, we need help.
Every few months, something malfunctions in the van.
We had to purchase a second vehicle, using up the small amount of room we had in our budget to add another monthly payment, so we only have to use the van when we need the power chair and so we have a backup when it fails. The very day we went to pick up the “new” car, the lift stopped working. When my abdominal aneurysm ruptures or requires surgery, if I survive, I will most likely lose my ability to walk completely. In the meantime, I need to be able to keep strain off my aorta to delay that surgery as long as possible.
It won’t be long before our eldest daughter has to use a scooter or power chair–technically she already should because she subluxes her ankles every time she walks very far, but we can’t get insurance to pay for one.
As communities, Muslims, Mormons and Evangelicals seem to be very good at rallying around their members. We Catholics, as a community, need to show the same generosity with ourselves as we do with strangers, to provide the “safety net” that keeps people from falling completely into destitution. On an individual basis, we have many wonderful Catholic friends who have helped us more than we can ever thank them for. We know someone out there can afford to help us.
We’re hoping to get a used, 2015 or 2016 Ford Transit Wagon XLT 350, medium height, for around $25,000. I figure we can modify it ourselves for around $3000-5000.
So accounting for fundraising fees, taxes, etc., we’re trying to raise about $30,000-35000 just for that, though if a generous benefactor wants to help with about $80000 in other expenses we expect to face in the near future, we’d be very grateful. If someone out there reading this happens to own a car dealership or know a car dealer (I recently heard a rumor that a major Catholic donor in our state owns a dealership), I’m going to be bold and ask if, in the name of Our Lord, you could please donate a van directly?
Please share this post. Please share the link to our fundraiser. Most of all, please pray that God opens people’s hearts to share, and that He profoundly blesses all those who have helped us.