To the Writers and Producers of <em>The Middle</em>
What were you thinking?
In the summer of 2012, a priest-friend on Facebook suggested your program as an example of one of the few truly wholesome, family-friendly sitcoms on the air today.
For the most part, we’ve found that to be true and have become huge fans of the show. We’ve now seen every episode in reruns or first run and have watched most of them with our children.
However, the previous two episodes (“Valentine’s Day VI” and “The Answer”) have left us scratching our heads.
There was a very clear contrast between the wholesome relationship of Darrin and Sue, and the implied fornication of Axl and Devin. Axl, a stereotypical “millennial” college student, attending college just because he’s expected to, with no real career goals, surprises his girlfriend with a rented bounce house, paid for by what? Credit card debt? Then comes home the next day to brag about having “celebrated” the night before. Darrin, who already has a decent, well-paying job, surprises Sue with a “micro-house” that is paid for, and proposes marriage.
So, what happens? Frankie sarcastically dismisses Axl’s “bragging,” and Mike hypocritically gives him a thumbs up over fornicating with some other man’s daughter while getting enraged that Axl’s friend has proposed marriage to *his* daughter. Frankie and Mike convince Sue that’s she’s right to want to “experience” the world and accumulate a lifelong burden of debt rather than settling down with a man who loves her and has already demonstrated the ability to provide for her?
I suppose it’s sadly realistic to how most parents think in this culture, but it was so very disappointing.